Engage the Heartalk™ Protocol

DIRECTIONS:    For each of the six numbered pairs below, choose the alternative, either "a" or "b", that is the more decisive for you when communicating with someone else.  Record your responses for scoring at Step 2.


1.  a.  Who’s talking and what’s being said
     b.  How it’s being said and by whom

2.  a.  What’s being said and to whom
     b.  To whom it’s being said and how

3.  a.  To whom it’s being said and what
     b.  What’s being said and by whom

4.  a.  How it’s being said and to whom
     b.  By whom it’s being said and how

5.  a.  Who’s talking and what’s being said
     b.  To whom it’s being said and how

6.  a.  What’s being said and to whom
     b.  How it’s being said and by whom